Fat chick dating
Personally I dont find obese girls to be attractive, as I am skinny myself. Although I did reply to you, I wasn't impressed on how you titled the Forum. But I will let you know why, in my thought process.
Have you ever eaten a tangerine so sweet that it was the be-all, end-all of tangerines? I have plenty of overweight friends, that's no issue, love them with all my heart. (there are differant levels of "fat chick" as you put it) There is OBESE, Overweight, few extra pounds, average, etc... If she doesn't take care of herself, then she is not going to be happy with herself and therefore not able to be happy with anyone else, you have to love yourself before you can love anyone else.
I don't mind if you tend to date fat girls, or really even if you get some specific pleasure from being with a fat woman -- but I don't need that to be the first thing you tell me about yourself. " It's announced as if it's supposed to reassure me that they aren't going to take one look at me naked and run, I think? Or maybe it's meant to suggest some kink; like to let me know that he wants to feed me cakes and watch me weigh myself? If you care more about my weight than I do, we're going to have a problem. "You're not the kind of lazy, stupid, disgusting, [insert sizeist insult here] slob who I expect fat people to be," is not a compliment.
Dudes tend to assume that I haven't dated a lot in my life -- or the opposite, that I'm always up for casual sex because I'm desperate for attention.
I have experienced sexual assault and trauma in my life.
I still loved her and was proud of her and we went out all the time, But SHE hated the way she looked.
I love Netflix and whatever as much as the next girl, sure -- but I also love art galleries and movie theaters and poetry readings!
And yes, I even enjoy going out for a good meal if you can manage not to make a big deal out of it.
My Ex once asked me after we got married if I would still love her if she got fat.
I told her I would ALWAYS love her, I just wouldn't take her in public as much. Well, she did get fat and completely lost her confidence, she was SO confident before that and THAT was beautiful.